"What was going on in 2018?" My friend asked me as she looked through my Instagram feed. She said there was a light in my eye. 2018 I worked at FORD with my best friend and every day was a new adventure - literally and figuratively. It was just two girls living fearlessly and unapologetically in every sense of those words.
2018 B was a different breed. She was hungry, determined, and had an unshakeable confidence about her. She made decisions on a whim but yet was very calculated. Since 2018 she has beat cancer, lost an ovary, birthed a daughter, started a new job, started a new business, became a homeowner, and probably a hundred other things I am forgetting about. Although 2018 B impresses the hell out of me to this day - I am not trying to be like her. One, because I can't. Life is very different from then and two, because I am trying to be better.
I made a decision recently that gave me the same "2018 energy". I now believe it is true what they say that one decision can change everything. The act of just making the decision caused a shift in me. (I will share the "decision" later, but I am not ready just yet.) I knew when I made the decision that I would be pushing myself to new limits, making changes, and putting myself on the line. I have to now show up differently if I want different results.
It was crazy to me that all I had to do was commit to a decision. So, the moral of this post is .. MAKE THE DECISION.
Whatever you've been pondering back and forth about .. just make a decision. Once you make the decision, commit to whatever is needed to make it real. Decision paralysis is real. Nobody wants to make the "wrong" choice. The only way to overcome this is by making a decision. So make the decision and commit. I get it, it is harder said than done. Humor me and just make the decision and see what happens.
That is all I had to say for now. Make the decision, bye!
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